Battling with premature ejaculation? Here are five ways you can overcome it and be the real man in the bedroom.
*Photo used for illustrative purpose*
The dream of any man is to last a little bit longer during s*x; but
experience shows that it is not always the case. They ejaculate earlier
than they want, sometimes too soon, such that both the man and his sex
partner feel robbed of a precious moment together!
Experts say premature ejaculation
happens when a man is unable to control the timing of his ejaculation,
and cannot delay it a few moments, even if he wants to. This affects
about one-third of men ages 18 to 59!
Well, not to worry, here are five sure ways of overcoming premature ejaculation and coasting home to the sexual experience you’ve always dreamt of!
1. Wear a condom. Normally, the condom provides a
small barrier between the penis and the vagina, and therefore helps to
decrease sensation to the penis (especially if the condom is slightly
thicker). This will help the man last longer during s*x.
2. Use a desensitizing condom. Consider a
performance-enhancing condom that contains a numbing agent, such as
lidocaine or benzocaine, inside the condom. These condoms can help many
men to last a few minutes longer by slightly decreasing sensation to the
penis. However, don’t rub lidocaine or benzocaine on your naked penis
and then have sex without a condom. If you do, it could numb your
partner’s vagina and make s*x feel uncomfortable for her.
3. Try the stop-start or squeeze techniques. You
need to be very disciplined to practice these techniques. Here, you need
to hold it, pull out from your partner and gently squeeze the head of
the penis, or pull out and briefly switch to a less sensational position
for a few moments. On and off like that, until you feel satisfied to
finally let go.
4. Consider SSRI antidepressants. You need to talk with your doctor here. Study shows that men who have problems with premature ejaculation
find that Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI)
antidepressants help them to delay ejaculation by several minutes. This
has led researchers to study certain doses of certain types of SSRIs for
the treatment of premature ejaculation.
5. Expand your sexual experience. Although it’s
difficult for many men to believe, many women are quite happy with
shorter bouts of intercourse. After all, vaginal intercourse can be
demanding on their bodies. If your girlfriend or wife assures you that
any technique is all right by her, then experiment! Just make sure to
make the entire sexual experience pleasurable for her. Ask her what
brings her the most pleasure and/or helps her to orgasm. Would she like
oral s*x? For you to stimulate her with a vibrator or your fingers? To
kiss or make out for 10 or 20 minutes before or after intercourse? Etc.
-culled from Punch
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