When a woman cheats on her partner (maybe husband or boyfriend), there might be a "cogent" reason for that -apart from the promiscuous ladies who jump from one trouser to the other -taking advantage of what they see...
1) Little/Lack of attention and intimacy:
Women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional attention. If she is not receiving this from her husband or boyfriend, it will only be a matter of time and she may seek it from another i.e. a caring guy friend, the attentive guy who feeds her emotional needs at her workplace, or the hot trainer at the gym.
Women deprived of attention, compliments, and compassion; usually have emotional affairs. That doesn't mean it won't lead to sex, but initially they crave the attention and compassion that has been absent from their relationship.
2) Going Through A Phase;
"If it is graduating, turning a certain age, losing a parent or advancing the relationship status, women become introspective," "Even if it is something she wants, such as just getting engaged or graduating, the transition can stir up an array of emotions about where her life is going or where she is in it.
The discomfort of change can trigger an impulsive desire to find someone to take her focus off the change and be a diversion for what she is going through."
3) Poor Sex Performance;
Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex, not enough sex, non-emotional sex, she may eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere.
4) Pay-Back's A B**ch (Revenge);
She may cheat on her man in revenge to what he's done to her.... Revenge affairs are common. Women have them in an attempt to restore self-esteem and feel desirable again.
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. She feels deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects her self-esteem.
It comes down to human nature,She'll want to get even. She won't necessarily go out looking to hook up, but when she's tempted, the fact that you've done it may weaken her self-control.
5) Financial independence;
When she feels financially dependent on her husband or boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak up in arguments or leave the relationship. The fear of being alone and financially unstable keeps her in a one-down position.
She may not be happy in a relationship but won't leave rather she resorts to a sneaky peaky affair behind her man's back...
6) It's Just Not Fun Anymore;
...But it's too hard to pull the plug. "When you don't laugh, you don't love. Laughter is one of the key elements in a relationship that often gets overlooked," Lee explains, simply. "When stresses of day to day life become the dominant factor in a relationship, women feel unhappy.
When they come across a coworker, or friend that they have a good time with, it suddenly brings to light what is missing in their own relationship and becomes tempting to act upon."
7) Feeling A Relationship Ending;
"When a woman feels that uneasy sense that a relationship is on the outs, by either her doing or his, she will often look to fill the void externally to soften the blow,"If she is the one considering the breakup, she may be using this tactic as a challenge to herself both testing the waters, and then gauge if she can go through with it."
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